This is a difficult area for me. I have very conflicting opinions. I haven’t resolved it in my mind, just where I stand. I need to think.
“You've got your ball,
You've got your chain
Tied to me tight, tie me up again.” Crash, Dave Matthews Band
It’s an intimacy issue for me.
Working with the understanding, that I only consider consenting adults available sex partners, here we go. There are certain sex acts that create much more intimacy than others. I believe bondage falls into that category. You will have to forgive me if I take liberties as I’ve said before, not having much experience in this area. I believe that bondage, whether light or hard core needs to have an aspect of trust behind it. At least it does for me. I’m ok with screwing just to screw. You don’t need to trust someone completely to have sex with them. More people need to get laid. I am not one of those with the ability to do that, but I don’t begrudge anyone else a roll in the sack. Bondage is different. It is more. It requires much more from you. There has to be trust behind it. For me, those I trust, I love. So love is also a factor for me. The reading I have done has those aspects to it. The pictures I’ve seen…do not.
I am not completely satisfied with that answer I’ve arrived at. I think there is still more behind it. If you feel you have insight to this you are welcome to comment. Be as direct as you would like, my pets. I’m in the mood to humor you.
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lese- you and I are in similar arrangements. I have been with 'M' for 20 years, since I was 15. He accepts all of me, unconditionally. For that, he will always have my heart. If you wouldn't mind, I would like for you to translate your comments about my blog that appear on your page. I'm afraid I will be unable to comment on your posts, but you are welcome to visit mine at any time. Have fun on your journey.
O, thank you for the compliment of mentioning my blog on your site. I enjoy the conversation very much. It's much more interesting than, what do you do for a living, or how is your diet going. Do you read with your wife?
I've played with bondage with a couple of people and both times it had to be someone I really trusted - even then it's a bit scary but we each took turns so both of us had to trust each other -after the first time there was no problem whatsoever and it's problably what arouses me the most to this day- just don't get to play as ofte nas I'd like.
O, you are welcome to comment any time.
Expei, keep in touch.
I hope you will not take this bad,
I understand your uneasy feeling about bondage,you're attracted by the idea....trust....except somebody who ties you up during love making kind of scares me.
gpv...no offense taken. It is not for everyone. Some wish to control and some wish to surrender. and some desire both.
"Sweet like candy to my soul. Sweet you rock and sweet you roll"
Peace...............
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