It's simple really. You teach people how you wish to be treated. You show them in many ways. By your dress. By your occupation. By your dominance or submission. By your manners. But mostly by what you will tolerate from them.
If you accept being lied to, being used or abused; then you show people it is ok for them to use you as a door mat. And believe me, they will.
I find myself being too kind as of late. I have accepted a lot of crap, that is not desired. I have been polite. I have been open minded. And now. Now I'm just pissed.
I am a woman. A woman that enjoys sex. That enjoys sex, talking about sex, and exploring my sexuality. I am also so much more.
This post has been inspired by all the instant messages I have been receiving. I have met some wonderful people through IMs. And so many more that aren't. Those that are in the later group are the ones I write about today.
I am not here for your amusement. Take your webcam and cock elsewhere. I'm not interested in what is in your pants or how spectacular you think it is. I am not here to get you off. It will happen with or without me. Let me rephrase that. It will happen WITHOUT me.
I know I bring some of this behavior on myself, stating my interest as I do. I choose not to change that. I will not stop my journey because of them. I will, however, stop accepting the behavior.
So if the Mistress seems rude or even down right hostile, get a fucking clue.
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if others cannot accept you as yourself that is their loss. do what you must and what is essential to you. I know you will.
and wil be the better for it.
Thank you for your affirmations. And, also for seeing past my picture. You are definitely one of the ones I like.
Rod, thank you for reminding me of the truth of the matter. And for being you. You are an amazing man and I love you for that.
You go girl!
Thank you John. I'm glad you enjoy a woman in control.
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